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Closed or open relationship - Counselling
Are you suffering from issues around your closed or open relationship and would you like to get some help how to deal with this? Therapy and relationship counselling can help.
Find a relationship counsellor in New Zealand:
Ashburton

My name is Anna Arrowsmith and I am a Qualified and Registered Counsellor. I have been in private practice for over 9 years in the Mid Canterbury area.
You're welcome for individual counselling and relationship counselling. I see couples, parents, adults, children and youth.
Auckland

I am an accomplished, skilled and committed (relationship) counsellor who has extensive experience in working with couples and individuals. I support people with relationships, separation, family, parenting, stress, anxiety and personal development.

--- Currently I only offer online counselling ---
I offer coaching for couples struggling or wanting to deepen their relationship.

I work with adults, couples, young people and families. Tailored relationship counselling that focuses specifically on YOU - what works for you and your relationship.
I have practiced in a lot of women’s pre/post natal, menopausal stages for women.
I am also an ADHD centric counsellor and offer specialist ADHD couples therapy.

Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with couples using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, IFS (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory and Gottman Couples Therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.

My name is Sara.
I offer clinically informed Relationship Counseling to help individuals and couples experiencing depression, anxiety, addiction, mental illness, trauma, marriage stress, or simply being overwhelmed by life or relationship.

Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with couples using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, IFS (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory and Gottman Couples Therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.

Experiencing relationship struggles ?
I'm an experienced Counsellor and Family Therapist. My in person sessions are from Highland Park Community House. I can also see you online via zoom.

You may want to talk to someone to sort things out. You can live a better life and relationship. And you don't have to take on everything alone.你可以生活的更好。你也不必一个人承担一切。
Blenheim

Kia ora, I'm an Italian therapist and I offer supervision for professionals and trauma specialised therapy for adults and couples. Sessions can be held in English, Spanish, French and Italian.

I help you find solutions for any issues you may be experiencing, whether they are related to your relationships or any other problem you may have.
My work is eclectic and I choose the type of counselling/therapy in consultation with you, to suit you and your issues. My mission is to support people in creating relationships that are more secure, joyful, and fulfilling.

I am a Blenheim based practitioner and I enjoy working with adults, adolescents and couples, nurturing a collaborative relationship to support you in discovering personal insight and healing in your relationship.
Cambridge

I take pride in fostering personal growth and increased self-awareness within the framework of healthy relationships. My approach prioritises effective communication and emotional well-being, recognizing their crucial role in building and maintaining fulfilling connections.
Through our collaborative efforts, we will work towards shared goals that lead to a more harmonious and satisfying connection. I am dedicated to providing a supportive space for individuals to navigate challenges, fostering a deeper understanding of thems
Dannevirke

Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Feilding

Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Hastings

Hi, my name is Troy, I have been working as a social worker/therapist for now 18 years in New Zealand.
I have worked with numerous individuals, couples, and groups of all ages and ethnicities.
I am an open, honest, easy-going, and non-judgemental person. I understand life can be challenging, and difficult. Therefore this is where therapy can be useful.

Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Kumeu

Hi, I am Sandi - a dedicated counsellor offering therapy with 14 years of experience in supporting individuals and couples through some of life’s and relationship's most challenging moments.
Motueka

I provide individuals and couples with a confidential and supportive environment in which to explore their inner world and their relationship. I have over twenty years experience in providing counselling/therapy and mentoring to individuals, couples, families and groups.
Napier

I will be taking new clients from 1 October 2024.
Welcome. Reaching out for professional help can be an important step forward for your own mental well-being and for the health of your relationships, yet it can be a hard step to take. I work in a kind, respectful and collaborative way, providing the space for you to gain insight into your relationship and your life. Relationship psychotherapy and relationship counselling can help you understand and connect with yourself and others.
Nelson

Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a relationship counsellor in Nelson and Stoke. I work with both individuals and couples. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice in Nelson since 2012.

My name is Bec. I use the basis of Imago therapy with couples, which is a unique way of working as the focus is on the space between: the relationship itself, rather than on each individual. Imago teaches a new way to communicate, understand and build one another up within the relationship and creates deeper bonds for long lasting love. Amidst that, I also offer a psychodynamic viewpoint, allowing the process to surface issues and to bring these into the room for couples to work through together.
New Plymouth

My name is Jessica.
I'm a life and relationship coach in new Plymouth. I support individual (starting with adolescents: ages 12 and above), couples, and offer workshop and retreats.
I have the privilege of offering couples coaching and workshops with my husband of 12+ years. He is a registered Social Worker. These services are available Online & In-Person.
Palmerston North

Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.

Kia Ora,
My name is Sabina. I have experience in working with individuals and couples from all walks of life who are dealing with a wide range of issues.
Paraparaumu

My name is Keri and I am an experienced (Relationship) Counsellor and Human Performance Coach.
Presently operating via Zoom only.
Queenstown

Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.
Raglan

I only work with individuals currently!
I’ve been helping people and couples create positive results in their lives and relationships, including lifting depression, easing anxiety, resolving trauma and relationship problems, since 2009.
Using a blend of (relationship) counselling, hypnotherapy, NLP and EFT I will provide you with the therapeutic tools, support, and guidance to help you make positive life changes.
Rotorua

Kia ora
I'm a wholistic therapist/counsellor for relationship challenges in Rotorua.
I am experienced in working with individual clients and couples on a wide range of issues
Including: infidelity, autonomy in relationship, relationship anxiety, divorce, insecurity, intimacy issues, relationship challenges
Stoke

Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a relationship counsellor in Stoke and Nelson. I work with both individuals and couples. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice in Nelson and Stoke since 2012.
Tairua

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Takaka

I provide individuals and couples with a confidential and supportive environment in which to explore their inner world and their relationship. I have over twenty years experience in providing counselling/therapy and mentoring to individuals, couples, families and groups.
Taupo

Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Tauranga

I believe that realistic choice-making can support your (relationship) counselling, and I consider it a privilege to journey with you in a safe and confidential environment to process what can be difficult emotions.
Te Anau

My name is Monty. I provide counselling to individuals, couples and families in the Fiordland area. You're welcome for individual relationship counselling, family therapy and couples counselling.
Thames

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Upper Hutt

My name is Athena Hemming. Although I qualified as a psychologist 35 years ago, I now feel my work is more accurately described by the words "Heart and Mind Coach".
Nearly half my work at the moment is with couples dealing with relationships, family and parenting issues. Sometimes all it takes is a couple of hours to get new inspiration.
It is hard to say this stuff about yourself (isn't it?) but as well as bringing a wealth of personal experience to each session, I bring compassion, intuition and a great sense of humour
Waihi

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Wellington

Overwhelmed by anxiety or depression? Frustrated with those around you? Dissatisfied with where your life and relationships are at?
I work with individuals, couples, children and young people, and can offer you a safe and confidential space to help you explore solutions that are right for you and your particular situation.
Clients come to see me with various difficulties in their lives and relationship like adultery, attachment issues, communication problems, intimacy issues, relationship anxiety.
Whanganui

Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Whangarei

I offer in person counselling for individuals and couples in my Whangarei central office, also worldwide online counselling in English, Swedish and Estonian.
My areas of interest include couples therapy, migration and cultural issues, stress and anxiety, relationship challenges, life transitions, communication difficulties and self-esteem concerns.

Hi, my name is Colin, counsellor in Whangarei. I have over 30 years experience working with individuals (children, youth, adults), families and couples.
We all experience difficulties at times in our lives that cause us to struggle, lose hope and feel like our life is out of control. I believe it is possible to gain the strength needed to face our issues, the hope to move forward and the balance to feel in control of our lives again. Counselling can assist in helping you to overcome life’s hurdles in a positive way.
Online relationship counselling

Are you looking for online relationship counselling? My name is Phil, an experienced relationship counsellor and family therapist in New Zealand (Auckland). I see individuals, couples and families.
If you are at a stage in life or your relationship of feeling that things aren’t quite how they should be. Let me reassure you there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

Currently available for NEW CLIENTS
Kia ora , my name is Ellen. I practice Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples. I’ve been a Counsellor for about 25 years, working with couples, individuals, and families.

I look forward to sharing with you 30 years of expertise and a versatile approach as a skilled counselor. Proficient in multiple disciplines and styles, offering a personalised effective processes for your unique needs. Experience the difference that seasoned adaptable guidance can make on your journey towards well being.

Online Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching.
Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.

I am a Holistic Counsellor, an intuitive & a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing.
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Therapies offered
- Couples coaching
- Couples counselling
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Family Dispute Resolution
- Gottman Relationship Therapy
- Imago relationship therapy
- Marriage counselling
- Mediation
- Online relationship counselling
- Pre Marriage counselling
- Relationship coaching
- Relationship Counselling
Types of issues
- Addicted to love
- Adultery, affair, infidelity
- Attachment issues
- Autonomy in relationship
- Cheating
- Closed or open relationship
- Commitment phobia
- Communication problems
- Cultural differences
- Divorce & separation
- Emotional infidelity
- Family problems
- Fear of abandonment
- I want a relationship
- Insecure in relationship
- Intimacy issues
- Jealousy
- Love sick
- Marriage problems
- Midlife crisis
- Relationship anxiety
- Relationship fights
- Self love
- Sex addiction
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